Monday, June 18, 2012
{ 1:58 PM }
In a blink of a eye, its already past mid June!
So far, June's been a awesome month (and will be) :D
Ended
a month of training at Scotts and back here in the office since
beginning of June, 8th June the boy planned a gathering at Timbre for
Zhiqun's post birthday celebration. which was awesome.
A gathering
with different groups of our friends meeting up at Timbre is the one of
the best Fridays of June :P Besides, 53A were singing that night. So
both the boy and me made Zhiqun to sing on stage with Sara Wee! Recorded
down on the phone and posted up cause Mag (Was in China) wasn't there to hear him doing the "serenade-ing" :P Oh yes, Zhiqun sang Fallin for you by Colbie Caillat which pretty much explained why the crowd was being "serenaded" by him.
I was kidding on the part with Mag hehe.
Anyways, that night was super awesome cause our friends from different groups get to meet each of them! It is a super awesome atmosphere which I can hardly explain it here but I did try... haha
Besides that, got to spend time with the boy cause he have to get back to reservist duty the following day, SAD-URDAY, for me. Made use of the time to do some revision and sleeeeeeept quite abit.
Sunday, the boy bought me to Jurong Hill for the Japanese Teppanyaki which I have been telling him about, that when I was much younger then, Mom always bring me there for teppanyaki. 10 years ago, the familiar place ^^ except that the prices increased is quite significant. Late lunch in the West and head down to the East to check out on the dates for religious classes and head back to the boy's place. Some conflicts happened so we were quite unhappy about it so I went back on my own cause he wasn't feeling well and I didn't want him to drive.
Came Monday, 11th June, had a paper to sit for. Went over to the boy's place after that, which I shouldn't had in the first place cause _ (some family issues).
Tuesday, 12th June, just a normal routine to work, and back home.
Wednesday, 13th June, It was his off day for reservist duty so what else is there on a wednesday night but to Mambo Jumbo at Zouk?! :D Went with Monica and her group of friends with the boy.
Haven't been partying in a long time so I was all tired by 3am ( I think). Head down to Nana for some awesome chicky wings and booze before ending my night on my comfy bed. Hehe
Friday, Went to pick Mag up at the airport. Saturday, Went down to Faiz's place for his birthday surprise. Sunday, religious class and the boy's Class 2 Practical class, The Dictator with Faiz, Sabi and the boy. Then it was at JB for dinner where we (or rather he) finally told Faiz and Sabi about us.
/heave a huge sigh HAHAHAHA!
Pretty much sums up the first 2 weeks of my awesome "SUMMER" June ^^
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Friday, June 08, 2012
{ 12:33 PM }
The boy brought me back to his place last night, to have me formally introduced to his mom that we are together.
A very long conversation indeed.
It was more of a conversation for her to know more about me and how I view issues from my point, cause being officially together committed for real means to have his family to accept me, which also means I have to accept their religion whole-heartedly. Not because I do it for him, but for the best for the both of us and I myself, have to believe in the religion too.
For now, while I'm going to learn about a new religion and how it actually goes about, she will take it as I'm a friend of sweetheart, till I showed something, probably a spectacular one, to her, before she take me as his girlfriend.
The boy was affected when I mentioned this to him, and I myself was quite taken aback when she told me.
It was like a minute or so later, I realised where she is coming from. I told sweetheart that she wants the best for him and I truly believe that at the end of the day, she will accept us because of where we will be. That it doesn't matter how long or tough she will accept me, but one day, for sure, I will do us proud. Do her proud that I am her son's girlfriend.
Yep, so we touched on alot in regards to religion issues. I told her about my realisation that no matter what religion one has faith in, it all boils down to being together as One Whole in the relationship. She told me about the guy being the one leading the family and that if one being is not constant, the other half will become shaky too.
In between the conversation, I realised it's abit too soon to have such indepth conversational "session" because we just officially got together recently? Then after, it actually got me thinking real hard. Because of my current age, planning for the future has just begun. And what if this conversation did not exist at the beginning, but rather somewhere in the middle of our relationship, unnecessary problems may surface.
So in all, despite the long journey we will be walking through together, I'm glad that his mom was willing to spend some time off to talk to me at the start of it. :)
Anyhoos, last night before I went to bed, I analysed and conclude; Accept the religion from my heart, for us.
Not sure about anyone who will be critical about it, but to me, sometimes you just know that this love is worth so much more you can ever do, and you're willing to do so much so much more, for the best for the both of us.
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Monday, June 04, 2012
{ 5:39 AM }
I was on the internet, blog hopping recently and this sudden urge of getting my own domain and do some real blogging shit just got me.
Not sure if I'm going to do something about it but its one new item to be added on the checklist ;)
The boy just started out with his reservist on monday and it was a tiring week for him. Had some problems adjusting to certain time and all but he being such a sweetie pie surprised me at my place with my favourite Korean food after a long day of training lectures. It was all warm fuzzy feelings that despite he, who had a much longer and tiring day than I had :')
Anyhoos, both of us told our Moms and the first reaction from the Moms were the same. But subsequent replies were different, with auntie's replies are more in-depth.She told the boy to bring me back home one day so that she can talk to me on certain issues regarding religion wise so that I will not get so much of a cultural shock. And also to sit in for some talks in relation to the religion.
Since secondary school days, even though Mom's side are mostly Buddhism believers and Dad's side are mostly Christianity believers, my belief is to respect all religion equally because religion issues can be sensitive at times but I never exactly set my mind into believing one of the any religion at all. Then I thought that maybe sometimes all I might need all this while, is faith that I might need to depend on for what ever reasons.
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