Friday, June 08, 2012
{ 12:33 PM }
The boy brought me back to his place last night, to have me formally introduced to his mom that we are together.
A very long conversation indeed.
It was more of a conversation for her to know more about me and how I view issues from my point, cause being officially together committed for real means to have his family to accept me, which also means I have to accept their religion whole-heartedly. Not because I do it for him, but for the best for the both of us and I myself, have to believe in the religion too.
For now, while I'm going to learn about a new religion and how it actually goes about, she will take it as I'm a friend of sweetheart, till I showed something, probably a spectacular one, to her, before she take me as his girlfriend.
The boy was affected when I mentioned this to him, and I myself was quite taken aback when she told me.
It was like a minute or so later, I realised where she is coming from. I told sweetheart that she wants the best for him and I truly believe that at the end of the day, she will accept us because of where we will be. That it doesn't matter how long or tough she will accept me, but one day, for sure, I will do us proud. Do her proud that I am her son's girlfriend.
Yep, so we touched on alot in regards to religion issues. I told her about my realisation that no matter what religion one has faith in, it all boils down to being together as One Whole in the relationship. She told me about the guy being the one leading the family and that if one being is not constant, the other half will become shaky too.
In between the conversation, I realised it's abit too soon to have such indepth conversational "session" because we just officially got together recently? Then after, it actually got me thinking real hard. Because of my current age, planning for the future has just begun. And what if this conversation did not exist at the beginning, but rather somewhere in the middle of our relationship, unnecessary problems may surface.
So in all, despite the long journey we will be walking through together, I'm glad that his mom was willing to spend some time off to talk to me at the start of it. :)
Anyhoos, last night before I went to bed, I analysed and conclude; Accept the religion from my heart, for us.
Not sure about anyone who will be critical about it, but to me, sometimes you just know that this love is worth so much more you can ever do, and you're willing to do so much so much more, for the best for the both of us.
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